As part of the Runwood Homes Group weekly Monday Memories initiative, Windmill House is delighted to shine a spotlight a cherished resident, Gillian Anne Elizabeth Whall, affectionately known as Gilly.
Born in Surrey in 1948, Gilly moved to Norfolk with her parents at the age of 17. She speaks fondly of her father, a Royal Air Force serviceman who was awarded the Distinguished Flying Cross (DFC) during the Second World War after successfully landing his aircraft despite being shot in the leg. Gilly remains immensely proud of her father’s courage and service and treasures the stories and memories of his wartime experiences.
After leaving school, Gilly began her working life at Norwich Union before embarking on a varied and rewarding career within the Civil Service. In 1972, she married her beloved husband, Richard, and together they built a happy family life, raising two sons and sharing a passion for travel.
Over the years, Gilly and Richard explored the world together, visiting destinations including Australia, New Zealand, America, Canada and many parts of Europe. Among all her travels, Canada remains her favourite destination, remembered for its stunning scenery and peaceful surroundings.
As her children grew older, Gilly pursued further education, studying Community Care at City College. This led her to a role as a teaching assistant at Clare School, where she worked with blind children. She later worked alongside her church minister, supporting vulnerable members of the community, including elderly people receiving end-of-life care, survivors of trauma, and those experiencing mental health challenges. While often emotionally demanding, Gilly found the work deeply meaningful and rewarding.
Outside of work, Gilly enjoyed singing in church choirs and performing at care homes, as well as swimming and taking part in a walking group. Her caring nature, strong faith and commitment to helping others have been constants throughout her life.
Following the loss of her husband in 2024, Gilly faced one of the most difficult periods of her life. After receiving support and treatment, she moved to Windmill House in December 2024, where she has become a valued member of the community.
Today, Gilly serves as one of Windmill House’s Residents’ Ambassadors. A proud and dignified lady with a strong presence, she enjoys meeting people, taking part in activities and representing her fellow residents. She is known for her warmth, resilience and willingness to share her life experiences with others.
When asked what advice she would give to her younger self, Gilly’s answer was simple and full of characteristic humour:
“Be a bit wiser!”
Everyone at Windmill House is proud to celebrate Gilly’s remarkable journey, her dedication to helping others, and the many memories she continues to share with our community.
